It’s cold here.
Like, really cold.
I thought it got cold where we live, but Northwest Washington has us beat by a whole 22F (at this exact moment; I just checked to compare the two cities). It might even snow this week. GULP! I know there are other places in the world that are much, much colder, but it’s our current reality and we are adjusting to learn how to live with the chill. At least for a few more days until my husband returns from overseas we head back to the surf and sun of the Northern Baja peninsula. Where it’s still cold…but not that cold.
Couple the cold with the late sunrises (7:33 AM) and early sunsets (5:18 PM) and it can seem like shadows and wind chill rule our waking hours. There are a few key things that are helping save my life these days and adding a sunny, silver lining to all those clouds . They might seem a bit commonplace to deserve an entire blog post unto themselves, but when it’s making that much of a difference they are definitely worth mentioning.
Wall to Wall Carpet
Yes. I just named a synthetic fiber ground covering as the number one thing that is saving my life right now. As heads are scratched around the interwebs, allow me to explain. Our house does not have carpet. Nay, it doesn’t have any floor covering to speak of except cold, white tiles. Which are f r e e z i n g cold in winter, even in our moderately temperate climate. Our walls are concrete block which are covered by the thinnest coat of plaster (no sheetrock here!) and a hastily applied paint job. It is impossible to properly and thoroughly heat a house that is made of solid rock. Trust us, we’ve tried. We’ve bought space heaters. We have hot water bottles and heating pads. I leave the oven door open after baking to let the dissipating heat radiate through the downstairs. We have a portable propane gas heater that takes the chill off if it’s run for an hour or so, but leaving an open flame in our main living space (or to run all night in a bedroom God forbid) doesn’t mix well with three kids ages six and under. It stays cold, period.
Now, put us on a few airplanes and fly us a thousand miles north and what do we have? Colder weather, of course, but we also discover carpet. This lovely, soft, cushioned, heat-retaining substance that caresses our feet and covers our floors and softens our falls. Carpet has been a game changer for us on this trip, so much so that I don’t dread getting out of bed in the morning and haven’t worn my ‘house slippers’ (which I brought with me on this trip) when I walk around inside. It’s the most mundane of items to most people, but it’s number one on my list today.
With my husband overseas and 15 hours in the future, we’ve been relying on technology to keep us in touch. The kids ask to “FaceTime Daddy!” every day but we’ve only been able to connect twice. It has been precious to see the kids’ faces light up when they see Daddy appear on the screen. Of course they fight and scramble over who holds the phone and then tears ensue, which slightly ruins the whole purpose of the video call. Regardless of sibling squabbles, I’ve come to appreciate the gift of technology and the instant boost it gives to a relationship during our time apart these past few days.
All the Other Things
Here are a few other life-lines that are floating around me these days:
Wood-burning fireplaces. My parent’s house has one and I might have single-handedly contributed to the deforestation of the planet this week. Worth it.
Cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents. When we live far away from family, time together is special and cherished.
Utility services that work, and work fast. The power went out the other night. I was prepared for the world to end. And then, it came back on. Just like that. I basically witnessed a miracle.
A day to indulge. Yes, yes I did. I had dreamed of it for weeks, and I enjoyed every minute of it.
Books. No further explanation needed.
Cold water from the tap. The freezing temperatures mean ice-cold water straight out of the sink. We are used to drinking room temperature water from a filtered, purchased water jug. It’s been a treat.
Sisters who fly across the country just to help. My younger sis made the trip south for less than 24 hours just to help us make the trip north to my parent’s house. It made all the difference.
It may be cold, dark, and wet most days, but my life is full of light. These little things add up to make a big difference. Especially to my sensitive little toes every morning.
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