Jackson David is here!
His birth stats:
- September 19, 2017
- 8:33 AM
- 8 lbs, 3 oz
- 21 inches long
Power goes out.
Kids recovering from fever & flu.
38 weeks pregnant.
Spontaneous trip to the car repair shop.
That’s how we started our 2017 school year!
All things considered, they did awesome. Like, really awesome. I was a bit concerned about the transition from the go-with-the-flow summer days to the structured-and-directed homeschool mornings (or afternoons, as this day happened to play out), but they did great.
Hunter is starting second grade. He will have a lot more “directed” work this year than in past years, but still with a healthy dose of discovery, adventure, and exploration.
Madison is our kindergartner this year. To say she is excited is an understatement. Except for the moments when she is undeniably tormented at the fact she made a mistake or can’t do something perfect. What can I say – she’s pretty amazing.
With Baby #4’s arrival just around the corner, we are taking it slow. Hopefully we can build some sort of momentum and rhythm so the kids can keep moving forward with school while we all adjust to Baby’s arrival. No matter what happens, we are embracing this season and all that we will learn.
The girls asked to wear “Ergos” on our morning walk today. We used scarves that my husband brought back from Cambodia to make slings to carry their babies (doll and rabbit, respectively). The slings held up through the entire 45 minute walk and they wanted to keep wearing them once they got home. Big sister practice is well underway!
Madison’s face…it makes me giggle. Also, most likely the girls will not be babywearing their new sibling anytime soon. Safety first, after all. It is sweet to see them embrace something they’ve seen us do as parents and make it their own.
Be prepared for the most anticlimactic announcement in the history of announcements:
Now, of course we are brimming with excitement and looking forward to Baby #4 joining the family sometime in September or October (and planning for another home birth in Mexico). We are grateful to have another life to welcome to the world and into our home. The kids already know how to talk to the baby and Leah is particular about making sure my shirt is pulled up and my belly is exposed when it’s her turn, especially if she’s ‘reading’ a book to the baby. Oh, and the name suggestions are out of this world. Possibly blog-post worthy all in their own right.
The reason for the wah-wah nature of the announcement is that I wanted to start writing about how I’m processing becoming a mom of FOUR KIDS. My heart and mind are already picking up habit loops based on what I think life will be like, trying to grasp onto some sort of plan to help us survive those first few months. Let’s face it – newborns are the most unpredictable creatures on the face of this earth. And for an INTJ mother whose StrengthsFinder score is all DisciplineStrengthsFinder score is all Discipline and whose DISC score is a soaring S, a tiny, wailing, inconsistent, irrational human is so hard to deal with.
I love them. Yes. But there’s a lot to process and I want to use this space to help do just that. Here’s to new life and more diapers!
What a surprise when over six inches of snow blanketed my parent’s hometown yesterday. It snowed nonstop from about 10 AM until well past 10 PM, which meant a white, winter wonderland awaited the kids this morning.
To say we were underprepared for winter weather would be an understatement. No gloves, no snow boots/pants/coats. It didn’t matter though! We layered up with what we had and stomped through the neighborhood as soon as we were done with breakfast. Snowy days tend to last only about 24 hours (it was already melting off the trees when we were outside today) so I’m happy we were able to be outside and enjoy the snowfall while it still felt like real snow.
And, to compare:
It’s cold here.
Like, really cold.
I thought it got cold where we live, but Northwest Washington has us beat by a whole 22F (at this exact moment; I just checked to compare the two cities). It might even snow this week. GULP! I know there are other places in the world that are much, much colder, but it’s our current reality and we are adjusting to learn how to live with the chill. At least for a few more days until my husband returns from overseas we head back to the surf and sun of the Northern Baja peninsula. Where it’s still cold…but not that cold.
Couple the cold with the late sunrises (7:33 AM) and early sunsets (5:18 PM) and it can seem like shadows and wind chill rule our waking hours. There are a few key things that are helping save my life these days and adding a sunny, silver lining to all those clouds . They might seem a bit commonplace to deserve an entire blog post unto themselves, but when it’s making that much of a difference they are definitely worth mentioning.
Yes. I just named a synthetic fiber ground covering as the number one thing that is saving my life right now. As heads are scratched around the interwebs, allow me to explain. Our house does not have carpet. Nay, it doesn’t have any floor covering to speak of except cold, white tiles. Which are f r e e z i n g cold in winter, even in our moderately temperate climate. Our walls are concrete block which are covered by the thinnest coat of plaster (no sheetrock here!) and a hastily applied paint job. It is impossible to properly and thoroughly heat a house that is made of solid rock. Trust us, we’ve tried. We’ve bought space heaters. We have hot water bottles and heating pads. I leave the oven door open after baking to let the dissipating heat radiate through the downstairs. We have a portable propane gas heater that takes the chill off if it’s run for an hour or so, but leaving an open flame in our main living space (or to run all night in a bedroom God forbid) doesn’t mix well with three kids ages six and under. It stays cold, period.
Now, put us on a few airplanes and fly us a thousand miles north and what do we have? Colder weather, of course, but we also discover carpet. This lovely, soft, cushioned, heat-retaining substance that caresses our feet and covers our floors and softens our falls. Carpet has been a game changer for us on this trip, so much so that I don’t dread getting out of bed in the morning and haven’t worn my ‘house slippers’ (which I brought with me on this trip) when I walk around inside. It’s the most mundane of items to most people, but it’s number one on my list today.
With my husband overseas and 15 hours in the future, we’ve been relying on technology to keep us in touch. The kids ask to “FaceTime Daddy!” every day but we’ve only been able to connect twice. It has been precious to see the kids’ faces light up when they see Daddy appear on the screen. Of course they fight and scramble over who holds the phone and then tears ensue, which slightly ruins the whole purpose of the video call. Regardless of sibling squabbles, I’ve come to appreciate the gift of technology and the instant boost it gives to a relationship during our time apart these past few days.
Here are a few other life-lines that are floating around me these days:
Wood-burning fireplaces. My parent’s house has one and I might have single-handedly contributed to the deforestation of the planet this week. Worth it.
Cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents. When we live far away from family, time together is special and cherished.
Utility services that work, and work fast. The power went out the other night. I was prepared for the world to end. And then, it came back on. Just like that. I basically witnessed a miracle.
A day to indulge. Yes, yes I did. I had dreamed of it for weeks, and I enjoyed every minute of it.
Books. No further explanation needed.
Cold water from the tap. The freezing temperatures mean ice-cold water straight out of the sink. We are used to drinking room temperature water from a filtered, purchased water jug. It’s been a treat.
Sisters who fly across the country just to help. My younger sis made the trip south for less than 24 hours just to help us make the trip north to my parent’s house. It made all the difference.
It may be cold, dark, and wet most days, but my life is full of light. These little things add up to make a big difference. Especially to my sensitive little toes every morning.
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